What do you do when someone is rude to you? Well smile.. Coz the world is round.. Dont give what you don’t like to get.. Its not that easy as it sounds.. A lot of times situations are such that we all end up screwing things up and others suffer due to us.. Not that we ever meant it but I guess screwing up is the only way we grow up!

Ive screwed up many times in my life.. A lot of times I was immature and sometimes I was just in a bad situation and tried to escape it..

But all the time I never did anything intentionally.. I am a guy driven by emotions and things get very complicated when you have to choose between people, career and family when you are an emotionally charged person like me..

So yes we all screw up.. But then what do we do after that? Do we say sorry? Can we remember one person whom we owe an apology and we haven’t yet apologize? I can remember quite a few and many Im not in contact with and have no way to contact either (phone’s lost.. number lost) but still have I tried? Nope.. Well this is what happens we hurt others and forget saying sorry thinking it wont matter.. But more than them it matters to us.. Coz the very fact we can remember those whom we hurt means our conscience isn’t clear.. You are carrying a burden my friend.. Imagine how far in life will you get with burden??

Recently I said sorry to someone for what I did and I had meant it genuinely.. But the person got angry possibly because that person got reminded of the hurt.. And instead of letting bygones be bygones the person got irritated and stopped talking to me.. Its funny! Till I had not apologized she was fine with talking to me.. The moment I did she remembered her hurt and got pissed with me.. Did I make a mistake apologizing???

Well not really.. I guess that person was a kind of person who buries hurts and forgets but never forgives.. I cant do much but atleast Im happy I took one burden off my shoulders.. Hopefully one day that person will understand why forgiveness is the greatest gift! Forgiveness onto others and forgiveness towards oneself..

Its true what you give is what you get.. So be very careful.. its better to give forgiveness than anger.. Its better to give love than hatred.. Its better to be nice than naughty.. err well a lil naughty is fine I guess you get the drift.. so go out there and give all the nice things and wait.. Nice things will come back! (Psst.. Same may not apply for naughty )